DC 2025
First Session LO Motivation for Path 3 Based on LI Ability to Change
First Session LO is Clear About Divorce
First Session When Leaning In Is More Leaning Out
Handling Recent Affair in Discernment Counseling
Past Affair With Prior Recovery Attempts
Micro Skills for Managing Talkative LO or LI in Individual Conversations
Managing the Perfect Leaning Out Spouse When LI Admits Hard Problems Like Affair or Addiction
LI Owns No Contributions
When LI Accepts All the Responsibility — What to Do With LO
First Session LI Adamant I Have Real Needs Too
First Session When The Couple Is Already Separated
A Note from Elizabeth on Skills
Skills Demos from Session One
Introduction to Skills Demonstration for Session One
Session One Skill 1 LO Shifting the Focus from the Relationship Complaint Narrative to Discernment About the Future
Session One Skill 2 LO Challenging the My Spouse Cannot Change Narrative
Session One Skill 3 LO How to Leverage Impressions of the LI in Conversations with the LO
Session One Skill 4 LO Responding to Weve Tried and Failed at Therapy
Session One Skill 6 LO How to First Introduce the Question of the LO’s Contributions to the Problems
Session One Skill 9 LO How to Help the LO Prepare the Sharing with the Spouse
Session One Skill 1 LI How to Initially Shift from What’s Happening is Terrible to What Can I Do
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First Session LO Motivation for Path 3 Based on LI Ability to Change
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DC 2025
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