This lesson introduces the concepts of EQ (emotional intelligence), RQ (relational intelligence), and SQ (systems intelligence) to help clients develop personal agendas for change in path three (couples therapy). By connecting emotional intelligence with relational intelligence, therapists can support clients in understanding their contributions to relationship dynamics and developing meaningful personal agendas for change.
EQ, RQ, and SQ:
Personal Agendas for Change:
Examples:
Avoiding Overwhelm:
The Power of Personal Agendas:
Crisis Level if No Personal Agendas:
Conclusion:
Developing personal agendas for change in path three involves connecting emotional intelligence (EQ) with relational intelligence (RQ) to help clients understand their contributions to relationship dynamics. By focusing on core personal vulnerabilities and their impact on the relationship, therapists can support clients in creating meaningful personal agendas for change, setting the stage for successful couples therapy. If clients refuse to acknowledge their contributions, it is a crisis for continuing with path three, as the success of couples therapy depends on both partners' willingness to change and engage in the process.