Session One Skill 2 LI How to Move Quickly Create a Shared Agenda for Helping the LI Save the Relationship

Session One Skill 3 LI Quickly Helping the LI Get the Partner’s Pain and their Own Contribution to It.

Session One Skill 4 LI Coaching on How to Have Self Regulation and Not Make Things Worse

Session One Skill 7 LI Helping the LI Go Deeper than I Made Mistakes and Show the LO Something New

Session One Skill 8 LI Preparing the LI for the Sharing with the LO

A Note from Elizabeth: What to Notice for Session Two

Secion Session Big Picture Goals

Second Session How to Start

Second Session with Leaning Out

Second Session with Leaning In

Second Session Avoid Pushing LO for Path Three Too Soon

Second Session How to Support Deeper Summary Report Outs

Navigating Distracting Individual Issues in Discernment Counseling

Determining What To Share versus Keep in Confidence (and How)

Challenging Each Persons Reality About Other

Handling Yes But Responses From LO

LO out but can’t accept personal responsibility

When LI Moves Towards Being a LO

A Note from Elizabeth: Session Two Skill Clips