Session Two Skill 3 LI Quickly Helping the LI Get the Partner’s Pain and their Own Contribution to It.

Session Two Skill 4 LI Coaching on How to Have Self Regulation and Not Make Things Worse

Session Two Skill 8 LI Preparing the LI for the Sharing with the LO

Session Two Skill 9 LI Helping the LI Regain the LI Stance When Weakening

Session Two Skill 1 LO Shifting the Focus from the Relationship Complaint Narrative to Discernment About the Future

Session Two Skill 2 LO Challenging the My Spouse Cannot Change Narrative

Session Two Skill 3 LO How to Leverage Impressions of the LI in Conversations with the LO

Session Two Skill 4 LO Responding to We’ve Tried and Failed at Therapy

Session Two Skill 6 LO How to First Introduce the Question of the LO’s Contributions to the Problems

Session Two Skill 7 LO How to Deepen the LO’s Sense of Personal Responsibility

Session Two Skill 8 LO How to Scaffold Challenges When the LO Does Not See Personal Responsibility

Session Two Skill 9 LO How to Help the LO Prepare the Sharing with the Spouse

Session Two Skill 10 LO How to Help Prepare the Personal Agenda for Change

A Note from Elizabeth about Sesssion Three

Third Session Who To Start With And Why

Third Session How to Start

Third Session Goals with LO

Third Session Goals with LI

Third Session Personal Agenda Formation