Session Two Skill 3 LI Quickly Helping the LI Get the Partner’s Pain and their Own Contribution to It.

Session Two Skill 4 LI Coaching on How to Have Self Regulation and Not Make Things Worse

Session Two Skill 7 LI Helping the LI Go Deeper than I Made Mistakes and Show the LO Something New

Session Two Skill 8 LI Preparing the LI for the Sharing with the LO

Session Two Skill 9 LI Helping the LI Regain the LI Stance When Weakening

Session Two Skill 1 LO Shifting the Focus from the Relationship Complaint Narrative to Discernment About the Future

Session Two Skill 2 LO Challenging the My Spouse Cannot Change Narrative

Session Two Skill 3 LO How to Leverage Impressions of the LI in Conversations with the LO

Session Two Skill 4 LO Responding to We’ve Tried and Failed at Therapy

Session Two Skill 6 LO How to First Introduce the Question of the LO’s Contributions to the Problems

Session Two Skill 7 LO How to Deepen the LO’s Sense of Personal Responsibility

Session Two Skill 8 LO How to Scaffold Challenges When the LO Does Not See Personal Responsibility

Session Two Skill 9 LO How to Help the LO Prepare the Sharing with the Spouse

Session Two Skill 10 LO How to Help Prepare the Personal Agenda for Change

A Note from Elizabeth about Sesssion Three

Third Session Who To Start With And Why

Third Session How to Start

Third Session Goals with LO

Third Session Goals with LI