DC is powerful… if you have the couple it is designed to help! As you think through past or present couples or individuals you may see the nuance here in what we define as a leaning-out spouse (LO for short.)
The 3 ingredients required for a leaning out (of course, we still need a Leaning In…) are:
Ingredient One:
Ingredient Two:
Ingredient Three:
Conclusion:
DC is not something “done to” couples. It is a formal, well-screened service that both people read about, know exactly what it is, how it works, what its goals are, and sign up for.