Third Session How to End

DC 2025 Third Session How to End

Ending session three in discernment counseling involves concluding the session with summary from the second spouse and providing final words from the counselor. This process ensures that both partners have the opportunity to share their insights and receive acknowledgment for their efforts.

Key Points:

Spouse Summaries:

Each spouse shares their summary of the session without commentary from the other spouse or the counselor. Spouse one shares then leave the room for the individual time with the other spouse.
The second spouse shares their summary, marking the end of the session for the couple.

Counselor's Choices:

The counselor has two main options for concluding the session:

Scheduling the Next Session: Plan the next session by discussing availability and scheduling details.
Offering Final Words: Provide words of appreciation for the couple's hard work and effort during the session.

Appreciation and Acknowledgement:

Offer appreciation for the couple's commitment to the discernment process and their willingness to engage in the hard work of discernment.
Avoid making broader commentary about themes or interaction patterns, as the conversations with each spouse may have been different.

Avoiding Meta-Comments:

Generally, avoid making meta-comments about the relationship at this point, as the individual conversations may not have covered the same topics.
Focus on acknowledging the couple's efforts and their presence in the session.

Conclusion:

Ending session three in discernment counseling involves concluding with summary from the second spouse and providing final words from the counselor. By offering appreciation for the couple's hard work and avoiding broader commentary, the counselor can acknowledge their efforts and set the stage for the next session.

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