Fifth Session Overview and Path Decision

DC 2025 Fifth Session Overview and Path Decision

Session five in discernment counseling is typically the final session, focusing on implementing the decision made regarding one of the three paths (path one: reconciliation without therapy, path two: divorce, or path three: couples therapy). This session is crucial for pulling together the next steps and managing the transition to the chosen path.

Key Points:

Five Session Limit:

Emphasize the five-session limit to maintain intensity and focus in discernment counseling.
The limit helps prevent eternal ambivalence and avoids turning the process into half-hearted couples therapy.

Purpose of Session Five:

Session five is usually about implementing the decision made in previous sessions.
It involves pulling together the next steps and providing guidance on managing the chosen path.

Average Session Count:

The average number of sessions across discernment counselors is about four, but session five is common and important.
By session five, couples typically have a clearer idea of their direction and are ready to take the next steps.

Path One:

Recognize that some couples may not reach a decision on path two or three, making path one (reconciliation without therapy) a viable option.
Ensure that couples are aware of path one as a possibility if they struggle to make a decision.

Occasional Additional Sessions:

In rare cases, an additional session may be necessary if a significant secret, such as a past affair, is revealed in session four.
This additional session allows for further discernment and processing of the new information.

Managing Secrets:

Be prepared to handle revelations of past secrets that may impact the discernment process.
Ensure that such revelations are addressed appropriately, providing the necessary support and guidance.

Conclusion:

Session five in discernment counseling is focused on implementing the decision made regarding the relationship's direction. By emphasizing the five-session limit, providing guidance on the chosen path, and being prepared to handle occasional additional sessions, therapists can help couples achieve clarity and confidence in their decision-making process. This session is crucial for managing the transition to the next steps in the relationship journey.

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