Demo of First Session Final Closing Moments With Couple

Objective:

To conclude a discernment counseling session by summarizing key insights, acknowledging the couple’s efforts, and scheduling the next meeting.

Key Points:

Acknowledgment of Efforts:

  • Bill appreciates both partners' contributions to the session, highlighting their willingness to discuss their own contributions to the relationship issues.
  • Bill appreciates both partners' contributions to the session, highlighting their willingness to discuss their own contributions to the relationship issues.

Recognition of Past Resilience:

  • Bill emphasizes the couple's history of rallying together as a team during external crises, such as their daughter's health problems and relocations.
  • This recognition serves to remind the couple of their shared strengths and resilience, which can be applied to their current internal crisis.

Encouragement for Future Sessions:

  • Bill expresses hope that the couple can bring these same resources to their discernment counseling work, fostering a sense of optimism and collaboration.
  • Bill praises the couple for their engagement and presence during the first session, setting a positive tone for future meetings.

Scheduling the Next Meeting:

  • Bill proposes a date and time for the next session, ensuring it works for both partners.
  • After confirming the availability, the counselor schedules the next session for January 19th at 8:00 PM their time, 2:00 PM the counselor's time.

Outcomes:

  • Both partners feel acknowledged and appreciated for their efforts and contributions to the session.
  • The couple gains a renewed sense of their shared strengths and resilience, which can be leveraged in their discernment counseling work.
  • The next session is scheduled, ensuring continuity and progress in their counseling journey.

Follow-Up:

  • The couple is encouraged to reflect on their individual contributions and the discernment counselor's insights before the next session.
  • The discernment counselor will continue to guide the couple towards deeper understanding and potential resolution of their relationship issues, building on the foundations established in the first session.