Session two with the leaning-in partner is crucial for establishing a locked-in arrangement where they are willing to champion the relationship and accept the counselor’s input. This session focuses on helping the leaning-in partner focus on their goal of saving the marriage and managing their behaviors and emotions effectively.
Key Points:
Establishing the Champion Role:
Addressing Negative Patterns:
Managing Demoralization:
Clarifying Goals:
Addressing Fairness:
Preparing for Path Three:
Calibrating Efforts:
Conclusion:
Working with the leaning-in partner in session two involves establishing their role as a champion for the relationship, addressing negative patterns, managing demoralization, clarifying goals, addressing fairness, preparing for path three, and calibrating their efforts. By focusing on these key points, discernment counselors can help the leaning-in partner sustain their motivation, manage their behaviors, and engage effectively in the discernment process.