This lesson discusses the importance of avoiding couples therapy techniques in discernment counseling, emphasizing the need for a clear distinction between the two processes. Discernment counseling focuses on clarity and confidence, not on changing the relationship, which can be challenging for therapists accustomed to couples therapy.
Key Points:
Distinction Between Discernment Counseling and Couples Therapy:
Temptations to Inject Couples Therapy:
Maintaining Boundaries:
Mindset Shifts and Warnings:
Practical Tips:
Conclusion:
Avoiding couples therapy in discernment counseling requires therapists to maintain clear boundaries, focus on clarity and confidence, and resist the temptation to coach clients on making immediate changes. By wearing the right hat, focusing on paths and agency, and avoiding intensive therapeutic interventions, therapists can support couples in gaining the clarity and confidence they need to make informed decisions about their relationship's future.