As relationships evolve, some find themselves at a crossroads, teetering on the brink of divorce. The uncertainty, anxiety, and divergent desires are the challenges couples face contemplating the future of their union. But amidst this turmoil, a beacon of hope exists: Discernment Counseling.

I'm Bill Dougherty, co-founder of the Dougherty Relationship Institute and the visionary behind Discernment Counseling. This innovative approach offers a lifeline to couples grappling with whether to salvage their relationship or part ways.

Understanding the Dynamics 

Picture this—a couple in therapy, one partner desperately clinging to hope while the other remains hesitant, perhaps already mentally preparing for separation. This incongruence often renders traditional couples therapy ineffective, leaving both parties feeling misunderstood and frustrated.

The Essence of Discernment Counseling

Discernment Counseling is tailored for couples in precisely this scenario. Unlike conventional therapy, where both partners engage in joint sessions, Discernment Counseling primarily involves one-on-one interactions. Why? Because each individual's needs and intentions are markedly distinct.

Navigating Different Paths

In Discernment Counseling, we acknowledge and respect the divergent agendas at play. One partner may contemplate walking away while the other seeks reconciliation. These disparate goals necessitate separate conversations to address each person's concerns comprehensively.

The Therapeutic Approach

Rather than viewing these conflicting desires as obstacles, Discernment Counseling harnesses them as opportunities for growth. Therapists can provide tailored support by engaging with each partner individually, validating their experiences without judgment or bias.

Empowering Each Partner

Through Discernment Counseling, individuals are empowered to openly explore their emotions and intentions.