Path One in Discernment Counseling

One reason Discernment Counseling is powerful is because there are 3 paths to discern in the work. This video goes deeper on Path 1, the less chosen path, but a vital part of Discernment Counseling. It’s also there to avoid half-hearted couples therapy. Learn more

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One Spouse Doesn’t Want Therapy But Is In Your Office. What To Do?

We’ve all been there. A couple enters the office for an intake. During the session (or worse, at the end during the final “doorknob blitz” of information), one of the spouses admits they don’t really feel a need for couples therapy. You freeze. This spouse is NOT suggesting divorce. They are simply stating they’re not into this […]

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Can Couples Therapy Work on Ambivalence Towards the Marriage?

Some therapists feel they’re great couples therapy advocates. They can smoothly and eloquently “sell” their skills and the positive outcomes they’ve seen over the years. This may all be true but for someone not sure they want the marriage, you can bounce along for a few sessions until the reality of where they’re at emotionally […]

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