What they perceive DC is and how it might help. How each sees the conflict in the Rshp. He can see she doesn't feel supported, hasn't shirked from responsibilties as a father, but may have shirked from being a husband. Sees he's been focused on work. Not feeding the reshp as much as should have been over past 5-10 years. Also she hasn't let me do that, combined forces, not strong territory to thrive and grow in our marriage. Doherty: Validates his reflection on it, and w/ all the therapy hasn't been able to make a decisive shift.